THE METHOD For Attracting and Growing
Leaving and Recovering
from Abusive Relationships
People presume it should be easy to get out of an abusive relationship. Someone is hurting you, so just leave. But the abuser has manipulated the mind of the abused into regarding him as the ultimate promise of relief and the absolute threat of punishment.
He/She does this by first providing his/her target with intense pleasure and relief from the target’s core-pain of loveless agony, which acts upon the target as a powerful drug.
Once the target is captivated by this, the abuser shifts into inflicting equally intense pain by withdrawing that supply and through aggressive assaults on the core love-wound of his target.
The abuser then reverts to providing pseudo-love when the abused is about to depart or die. He/She then returns to abuse mode to once again take his/her victim to the limit.
He/she repeats this over and over, until the victim regards the abuser as the ultimate source of soothing and the ultimate threat of pain, until the abused feels helpless and powerless to overcome the bond.
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THERE IS A WAY OUT OF THE COMPLEX PATTERNS CAUSING THE RELATIONSHIP ABUSE CYCLE
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